TRUST IN GOD! My Grief Journey – Part 1

“I woke up this morning with my mind stayed on Jesus -Hallelujah!”

Last year my family hosted an eightieth birthday celebration for my dad. Today he would have been eighty-one years old if he were still alive. It has been six months since daddy died. I wasn’t sure how I would feel today and I imagine that before the day is over I may experience a range of emotions. However, I thank God that I woke up this morning with a sense of peace.

As I thought of daddy I was pleasantly surprised that I didn’t feel that deep ache that I sometimes feel, nor did I feel like crying. Instead I enjoyed a calm reflection of gratefulness because I believe my daddy was at a place of peace with his soul and God when he passed. As a family we were at a place of forgiveness, acceptance, peace, and LOVE! That is a blessing which gives me peace and joy. Thank you Lord!

In the coming months I plan to share more relating to my grief journey. (I have a post that I started drafting a couple of months after my dad’s death but just haven’t allowed myself to finish that one just yet…). Today, I just want to encourage you as you move forward along your own personal grief journey. Everyone’s journey is different, so don’t feel as though yours has to be like someone else’s. TRUST IN GOD is one of the most important components of holistic wellness. Trust God with whatever you are experiencing in your life and as you cycle through the stages of grief. The Bible scripture Philippians 4:13 states, “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” I am a living witness that He will give you peace. Feel free to share with me your thoughts relating to your grief journey. Don’t hesitate to download my free CROWN TO SOLE WELLNESS Action Guide to find some simple action steps you can take to help increase your trust in God. (The featured image is of my dad, Dr. Arnett G. Montague, when he was a young adult in his early twenties. Wasn’t he sharp?!!)

9 thoughts on “TRUST IN GOD! My Grief Journey – Part 1

  1. Thank you Karla for sharing this. I lost my favorite uncle last year, his birthday was this past week. Your message gave me perspective. Praying for you.

  2. The death of my father and subsequent care of my mother has taken me to a new level of trust in God. I clearly remember one night, while praying that my father would fall asleep after a dose of pain medicine, the Holy Spirit whispered that it would be ok. A peace flooded over me as I faced the reality of my father’s death. But, God knew I needed to be assured that it was well with his soul and God’s providence would be with our family after his death. Because of our human condition, death can give us a clearer perspective on life and the things that are of value. My prayers are with you as you continue to walk this journey of grief.

    1. Andrea, Your words mean so much and resonate with me greatly! Thanks for your prayers. Will do the same for you!

  3. I had the opportunity to be the care taker for my mom before she transitioned. My soul was at peace because I had the chance to talk to her about her leaving this world. Even in the mist of the transition, she would wave her hand when the 23rd Psalm was recited. I praise God for the time they He allowed me to sit with her. I’m reminded that His grace is sufficient and His strength is made perfect in my weaknesses. You are always in my prayers and heart. It’s better when we have a relationship with God and can lean on Him. I really miss her, but it is well with my soul because I know that I will see her again. Sister friend know that I love you much.

  4. Just wanted to say thank you cause you have been a blessing to me & my family. Helping with my son and giving me things to do as i went thru with cancer treatments and everything just wanted you to no cause God is always there thru the good & the bad

    1. Amy, You have been such an inspiration to so many with your positive attitude and Trust in God through your cancer journey. Blessings to you and your family.

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