Category Archives: black women’s health

The Role of Love In Holistic Wellness

One of the concepts I share with my coaching clients who want to reclaim their heath and thrive, is to embrace love as the guiding force for their lives. Often, when we are dealing with chronic illnesses and auto-immune flares, we can become discouraged, feel bad about ourselves, and not want to be around others.

Our thoughts can become negative and we may blame God, blame ourselves, and blame other people for whatever role that we perceive they have played in causing us pain.

However, as we operate from a place of love, it can help promote our healing. Hate destroys while love builds. I encourage you to love God. Love yourself. Love others.

Sharing and showing love can take many different forms and I am reminded of recent gathering that brought some of my family together in bonds of love.

Last month my paternal uncle Wilfred celebrated his 80th birthday. This uncle is my dad’s youngest brother and one of only 2 of my dad’s 11 siblings who are still living. My father passed away a few years ago.

Earlier this year, several of us nieces and nephews floated the idea of coming together to help our uncle celebrate this special milestone birthday. We all live in different cities and states, mostly in the south, and my uncle lives in Las Vegas, Nevada. We knew it would not likely be possible for his older sister, who is in her 90’s, to travel to be there; however, the next generations (nieces, nephews, children, grandchildren) could do our part to make his celebration a time for family togetherness and love. I’m so grateful my husband, sons, and I were able to take this trip together.

WHAT A WONDERFUL TIME WE HAD! Some of my cousins I had not seen for many years, and some I met for the first time. The love was there and I believe it did us all a world of good. Many hugs and smiles were shared. This intentional celebration did a lot for me in my journey to healing of mind, body, and spirit. I believe everyone who was in attendance had their spirits lifted. My brother, Kevin, who is very close to my uncle, shared with me, “I’ve never seen uncle this happy!” It makes me feel good to know we made him happy! He has shown his love for us through the years.

If you are harboring unforgiveness and/or hatred in your heart, it may be interfering with your healing process. Ask God to help you release those burdens and give you a heart of love for Him, yourself, and for other people.

For those of you struggling with chronic illness, such as autoimmune disorders, and ready to invest in yourself for a high level of personalized support in taking control of your health, I invite you to schedule a call with me for a free Overcome Autoimmunity Discovery Call to see if and how I can help you! Click HERE to schedule your call or email me. I look forward to speaking with you.

Blessings!

Dr. Karla

Circle of Strength: Embracing Sisterhood to Overcome Autoimmune Challenges

Dr. Karla and Dr. Carolyn

This past weekend was very special for me as I celebrated the beauty and value of good sisterhood relationships. I was invited to participate with one of my close sister friends on a panel in which we discussed what makes our bond so precious.

My panel partner is my dear friend and colleague, Dr. Carolyn Lightford. We developed a friendship that quickly evolved into a sister bond many years ago during our 3rd year of medical school. Our relationship deepened during our time together in the same Family Medicine Residency program.

Carolyn and I have shared so much during these past few decades. Together we have laughed, cried, studied, celebrated, complained, prayed, and encouraged one another. We have also served as each other’s physician! God allowed our paths to cross many years ago and we agree our bond is for life.

The same day of the sisterhood panel, I acknowledged a milestone with another group of special ladies. My sorority line sisters, Vivian, Karen, Cathy, Monya, (my sands) and I celebrated becoming members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. 44 years ago.

Take Five – MuRho-Delta Sigma Theta

These ladies became my family during a time when I needed support, community, friendship, and positive influences. We became that for each other during our quest to become members of the sorority. Forty-four years later we are still connected. We live in different towns; however, the love remains.

During the panel discussion we shared some of the “Golden Rules” of friendship which include:

  1. Listening well
  2. Honesty
  3. Extending a shoulder to cry on
  4. Genuine interest in one another
  5. Loyalty
  6. Acceptance
  7. Love

When I became ill a few years ago with auto-immune disorders, these sisters were among those who prayed for me, checked on me, loved on me, and encouraged me on my journey to healing and recovery of health. My sisterfriends are important in my holistic wellness.

I grew up in a home with brothers; however, I have been blessed with precious “sisterfriend” relationships throughout my life. I don’t take them for granted and I am forever grateful. If you are blessed with special sisterfriends, reach out to them and let them know how much they mean to you. They can be “lifesavers”.

If you are struggling because of autoimmune disorders and ready to invest in yourself for a high-level of dedicated, personalized, 1 to 1 support in taking control of your health to thrive, I invite you to make an appointment with me for a free Overcome Autoimmunity Discovery sales call to see if and how I can help you.

Click HERE to schedule your appointment today!

Blessings,

Dr. Karla

From Illness to Wellness: A Journey of Healing

Sometimes, it’s good to take a look back and reflect on where you have been to appreciate how far you’ve come.

I was recently looking through my photos and came across two that share a glimpse into my journey with autoimmune disorders.

The picture on top was taken in 2019, shortly after I became ill and this was how I dressed for bed. I was looking a “hot mess” with compression socks, Elastic bandage on my ankle, knee brace, and I had a heating pad on the floor next to the bed.🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

My body hurt from my neck down to the bottoms of my feet. My joints and muscles were inflamed and I had trouble moving around. It was NOT FUN. 😩

I prayed for instant healing but, it didn’t happen that way. However, as I implemented my step-by-step process for health recovery, my mind, body, and spirit were rejuvenated.

The picture on the bottom was taken 2 years later in early 2021. Praise God!🙌🏾. After my most recent visit with my doctor’s office last month, I was informed that everything continues to be stable! I can keep doing what I’m doing!

In my private coaching programs, I help my clients take control of their health using the same process I use for myself.

Recently, I launched my “Reclaim Your Health and Thrive” 12-Month Private Coaching Program, which allows my clients to experience a full year of a high-level of personalized 1-1 wellness coaching.

If you are ready to invest in yourself for this type of support to take control of your health, I invite you to make an appointment with me for a free “Reclaim Your Health” Discovery Sales call to see if and how I can help you.

Please CLICK HERE to schedule your call today. I look forward to speaking with you!

Blessings,

Dr. Karla

Stay Encouraged! A Peek into my “31 Day-No (or very little) commercially processed foods” journey!

Almost a year ago I shared a blog post titled, “Start Now, Improve Later.” This is a phrase I heard a few years ago from one of my mentors and she continues to repeat this to her clients and mentees. Sometimes I get a little discouraged when something I’m trying to do takes longer than I think it should (or longer than I want it to take). And then there are the times when I’m trying to do something new or a little out of my comfort zone and I’m not quite satisfied with the results (probably because I’m comparing my results to someone else’s). It is during those times I can hear that phrase in my head: “Start now, Improve later.”

The blog post I wrote with that title shared my dislike for cooking but my desire to eat food that tastes good and is also healthful. (My food journey has been one of gradual change over the past twenty years or so of transitioning to eating less meat, then no red meat, later eliminating chicken, and about seven years ago I decided to eliminate fish and then dairy (for the most part). As much as I didn’t really want to cook, almost a year ago I decided to enroll in an online cooking course taught by another mentor and friend of mine. While my food didn’t look as “pretty” as my instructor’s, I still felt quite proud of myself for just stepping up and completing the class. Now, I didn’t become a gourmet cook or anything like that BUT…I became a little more comfortable with at least trying. One of my goals is to eat food that can be simply prepared but also tastes good and is nutritious. I’m trying to take care of this temple y’all!

So, fast forward almost a year later and a member in one of the Facebook groups I’m in issued “31 day, no processed foods” challenge. “Ooooh”, I thought, “Here’s my chance to work on another one of my goals” (of eating less commercially processed foods and more whole, plant-based fresh foods). I said YES to the challenge maybe a week or two before we were to start. During the time before we were to start, I had planned to do some meal planning and grocery shopping so I would be READY! Well, life just kept happening and it did not slow down enough for me to prepare like I wanted. (Or maybe I just kept procrastinating because I hate grocery shopping too and I didn’t feel like taking the time to plan the menus). Anyway, August 1st comes (start date) and I didn’t want to back out or put off doing the challenge so I had to just jump right in there…! Let me tell you, it has been an interesting experience so far and I’m actually enjoying it. My menus and recipes have been pretty basic and simple but I think my food tastes pretty good. (Well, there was that one time I tried to do something different with my sweet potatoes and I had to throw that mess away ’cause it was NASTY! and I didn’t even THINK of posting a picture- LOL!). I announced on Facebook that I was doing this challenge and started posting pictures of my meals. I had no idea how much just doing that would help keep me accountable because people actually started looking at what I was eating and even started asking me what I would be eating. So, now I’m thinking…”I can’t mess up….I’m in this thing now”. I’m a little over halfway finished with the challenge (I’m on day 20) but I plan to continue with some of the good habits I hope I’m forming. The feedback I have received from others is mostly encouraging. Hopefully,as a result of having done this challenge, it will help me to be even better equipped to serve others and give me even more resources to share with those who are on the journey to achieving “CROWN TO SOLE Wellness”. (I’ll give you a follow up report when the challenge is completed.)

Wherever you are in your journey toward being healthier (wanting to lose weight, getting more physically active, eating better) stay encouraged and don’t quit! “Start Now, Improve Later” and just keep moving forward. Don’t be afraid to get help. Get someone to help keep you accountable! You can do it! Love yourself and take care of that “Temple”!

As always, my mission is to encourage, empower, and equip individuals to take control of their health and create lives of joy, abundance and holistic wellness from the Crown of the Head to the Sole of the foot (that includes mind, body and spirit). Please leave me a comment and let me know what goals you are working on (and feel free to give me some good plant-based simple recipes that I can try).

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Could you be having a Heart Attack? Some warning signs to know!

I recently shared a post about my childhood friend who had a heart attack when she was in her early to mid-fifties. (The Black Woman and Heart Disease: Some things you need to know!) I was pretty shook up about it but, thankfully, she survived and currently is doing well. It made me take a closer look at myself to check my own risks. I’m definitely more intentional about living my life on purpose.

Often we think of heart attacks affecting men. However, statistics show that each year approximately 50,000 African-American women die from cardiovascular diseases. Forty-nine percent of African-American women from the ages of 20 and older have heart diseases, yet only twenty percent of African-American women believe she is at risk personally. Heart disease is the African-American woman’s greatest health risk but only fifty-two percent of us are aware of the signs and symptoms of a heart attack.

So, Let’s break it down. What ARE some the signs and symptoms of a heart attack?
* Persistent Chest pain, pressure, or other discomfort/squeezing (however, women are more likely than men to experience a sharp and temporary chest pain)
* Pain may go to the neck, shoulders, or arms
* Lightheadedness/dizziness
* Fainting
* Sweating
* Nausea
* Shortness of Breath

Some other, less common warning signs that women are more likely to experience as compared to men are:
* Stomach or back pain
* Unexplained anxiety or nervousness, tiredness, or weakness
* Palpitations or heart racing, cold sweats, paleness
(And unfortunately some women don’t have any symptoms at all, hence the term “Silent Killer”)

Okay sister, I KNOW what you are probably thinking…especially if you are like me and experience some of these symptoms due to other “natural,mid-life” reasons. (Yeah, I’m talking about menopause/premenopause). You are wondering, Could I be having a heart attack or symptoms of heart disease? It’s true that these signs and symptoms could be due to other causes and illnesses BUT, just because you are a woman, I don’t want you to downplay the fact that it could be your heart. It’s important to be aware of your risk factors. (see my post The Black Woman and Heart Disease: Some things you need to know!) Don’t be afraid (or TOO BUSY) to get yourself checked out. Your family and the World need you and what you have to offer!

P.S. If you are ready to take control of your health and reduce your risk of heart disease and heart attack I currently have a few openings in my schedule for a free 30 minute discovery call to determine if and how I can help you. Go ahead and click here to claim one of these spots before they are gone!